Wednesday 4 February 2009

MAAALAAAAT!

yesterday I was at my in laws for a dinner party, my husband's cousin's wife (AA) was there, i am not very in touch with her but i am very friendly with her because my husband and his cousin -her husband- are best friends and i don't wan to do any thing to ruin it

so i saw her and i said hi to her, she gave me this nasty look and said nothing. i shrugged and sat away from her. later after dinner i was giving away the cakes and sweets and i saw her, i asked her if she wanted more cake and she did the same thing, but it made me angry because she did it in front of everyone! the whole majlis was looking at me like i did something. i ignored her and sat next to my husband's sister in law, i asked her why (AA) was treating me that way, and she said she doesn't know. i looked at (AA) and saw she was glaring at me. (AA) turned to someone who sat next to her and said VERY LOUDLY, "if you have a problem with me, come and talk to me, don't be sneaky and like a school girl and ask someone else". I wanted to walk to her and throw water in her face and give her a very big piece of my mind

I've done nothing to her, NOTHING! there is no reason for her to act this way, i never said anything bad about her, i always ask about her and i give her the occasional call every once in a while, she has absolutely no reason to treat me this way
maalaat 3aleeha! el problem is that she will be moving next to me in few weeks and i will see her face every time i leave my apartment

9 comments:

sadia said...

women!
just ignore her.
some people have a real attitude problem, and there's no point wasting time over it.
did you tell your husband???
what did he say?

Rude Lovers said...

i did tell him and he was angry! but i made him promise not to say anything

i hate women

Abid said...

Say you're sorry for whatever you did (even though it's not your fault).

It's best not to turn relationships with such 'rotten' people so sour.

Anonymous said...

wat does "maalaat 3aleeha" mean?

Anonymous said...

i hate women too wallah... and it's because of people like AA...malat 3aleiha min galb

Maitha* said...

ahhh women drama! I think we all do it occasionaly without realising.. and the main reason is because we keep it to ourselfs. Try asking her?

Rude Lovers said...

thanx for the comments all :D
I can't go and talk to her, she won't give me a chance! she wont answer the phone ad ignores whenever she saw me

i decided to ignore her too, i will be the bigger person, the more educated one :P

Anonymous said...

when I hear stories like this the only thing that always comes to mind is "t"3ar"..sadgeeni...that's the only reason why women are nasty to each other for no obvious reason.. and the best remedy? Ignoooooore and pretend enneh mooool mafi shay and be extra nice , cheseeha lol

Anonymous said...

will ya galbee you and me live the same drama ...and yes she will get worse wel 3elaqa will get worse to ..my brother in low wife treat me the same and we live at the same house et9awrai..she do ignor me not take to me wa a7yanan tsawe 3omerha ma sm3atni infront of every one ..and no one think that she ment it ...I trayed to speak to her if there anything wrong since she was nice with me when we first met but ...la ma fe shay bkell brood radat 3alay...wallah sho 9ar ..or anything...gelt ok maybe bas fatrah wa t3adi la el moshkellah 6arat wa 7alat..now she treat me like I dont exsist..ya3nee..(I wish I could be the same)I don't know how people can live like that ...an I cant ..bas now I tray to ignor her...wa not take about her to thow i want i really want tell every one how nasty she is ,,,wa etha s2alteni laish she ma t7abich or something ..i dont know i really dont know..bas ana dayman agool one day enha will change and she will know that there is no resons to act like this...ok wa akheraan na9ee7ti lech don't take to her or even ask her way she do this dram ..la2nha embayan 3aleha malssona...wa enti ma treaden it7a6een 3omerch fe maqeaf m3aha ...i mean ma trayden t'3l6ean wa be unmeture about it..so ignor her like she is not living next to you ..wa mathlee infron your haspend that you are nice and cute wa ench tabeen el9l7 ma3aha...but in the other hand ignor her and don't call her or anything wallah etsawelha 7saab wa '6aleha t3reaf e7doodha..for exampel if she ask you anything men elf'6ool don't answer in anice way ..wa tray not to tell your hubby every single deatel he will get sick of it ...wa salamtkom.......